This past year taught me more about adulting than any other. I’m not counting the time I cried in the financial aid office practically begging for more money in my junior year of college. Maybe it was because I was scared. Maybe it was because I, for once, would deal with finances bigger than my head. I say bigger than my head because my future is so much bigger and brighter. And yours is, too.
This past year, I’ve published two books, started graduate school, and got my first “big girl job” in the world of editing – all of this for the purpose of fulfilling my grad school career and beyond.
Never will I ever say I am ostensibly “washed up.” No. Nobody is. You are simply a new version of yourself. That’s advice #1. I might as well get into the list.
2.) Adulting may seem daunting, at first, and sometimes stressful. But there will come times that you will have to ask for help.
3.) I said this many, many times but being single is actually f—ing fantastic.
4.) Dating apps are not worth the aggravation.
5.) Friends with benefits are not a thing. I have not tried this, nor will I ever. DON’T F— YOUR FRIENDSHIPS.
6.) Where there’s a will, there’s a way. I don’t know where that’s from, but it’s true.
7.) The unfortunate art of “growing apart” hurts like an SOAB, but it’s a part of life and life is full of transitions.
8.) It’s okay if you’re still living with your parents. I am! In fact, a lot of graduate students have gone back home due to the pandemic to live with their ‘rents.
9.) Making an Instagram for your dog is okay. Yes, I made one for my Yellow Labrador, Brody, and you can follow him @goodestboybrody.
10.) It’s okay to stay up past midnight to have more “me time.”
11.) Take that once-in-a-lifetime opportunity because you never know if it’ll come back.
12.) You are worth so much more than a guy who just wants to sleep with you/go down on you.
13.) If you practice the law of attraction, manically manifesting/fixating will not help you.
14.) If you’re constantly feeling compared to, it’s not you. It’s them.
15.) It’s acceptable if you’re a little “all over the place” now. You’ll have it figured out — whatever “it” is.
16.) Take that chance and email that job/employer.
17.) Don’t knock it til you’ve tried it.
18.) You never lose, you learn.
19.) Pick something you want to improve and focus on it.
20.) It’s okay to walk away from something that no longer serves you.
21.) You’ll learn the value of acceptance and your intuition.
22.) You’ll know exactly what you want. Dreams don’t work unless you do.
23.) With that being said, don’t give up.
24.) Don’t give up, but take some time to rest and take care of yourself. Take a nap, sis. You deserve it.
I once said that I really wouldn’t want to be anybody else. And you know what? That’s actually true, and what’s funnier than 24? I actually believe when I say I am me and I love the me that I am. I don’t need SpongeBob or Patrick to laugh at that. Thank you, anyway!
xoxo and happy birthday!
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