Ahh, the things you do when you wake up at 5:30 A.M… draft a blog post that will actually help people? While watching “Sex and the City?” It’s like sophomore year all over again!
One episode of “Sex and the City” deals with 30-something-year-olds dealing with 20-something-year-olds. Carrie Bradshaw, being in her thirties, proposes the question, “Friend or Foe?” My first answer? Being a 23-year-old, WE’RE STILL LEARNING HOW TO NAVIGATE LIFE! GIVE US A BREAK! My second answer, maybe if you looked back on when you were 23, and what you knew, you’d empathize with us. You’re probably looking back on the mentors you had when you were in your twenties. These mentors could’ve been anybody. If you’ve just started college this past fall, or if you’re in a gap year, these rules of thumb should apply to you; you’re not left out! I said a lot about college in For the College Student(s) Having Doubts but there’s more where that came from!
- You don’t have to be a double major because it sounds cool.
- You don’t have to have a boyfriend freshman year.
- A “C” really isn’t that big of a deal.
- If you go to your professors with personal problems, you’d be amazed at how understanding they are.
- Don’t be afraid to ask questions, and question EVERYTHING. That is your job as a college student, don’t let anyone tell you otherwise. If they do, make that argument.
- Not every professor understands mental health, but it is just as important as physical health. If you’re in a situation where a professor is ignorant of a mental health concern, tell somebody.
- Join a physical activity, no matter if it’s intramural or not.
- With that being said, try something new! Like a sorority or something.
- Internships are not only cool, but they give you a “leg up” in the real world.
- You will cherish sleep like no other.
- If you’re not 100%, or even 99% in love with your college, transfer.
- End of February-mid March and October are by the far the worst times of the school year. Why? Midterms! But the hard work will pay off.
- Don’t let anyone call you stupid, not even your closest friends.
- If any underclassmen give you shit, just smile and say “that’s cute/that’s cute you think you can intimidate me.” They should not be treating college like high school.
- Seek out that upperclassman you’ll look up to.
- BE the upperclassman that students look up to, for the right reasons.
- It’s 150% okay if you don’t “party.”
- If any high schooler from home asks if you “party,” tell them that’s not what college is all about.
- Getting drunk is yet another thing college isn’t about. The last thing you need is a hangover.
- PLEASE call your mom and/or dad, or your brother and/or sister. They miss you.
- PLEASE use your work-study to your advantage! Otherwise, it just goes to waste. Plus, it’s extra money in your pocket.
- You will have that mentor through work-study/payroll whatever you have! They’re important and will teach you everything you ever need to know.
So the final answer is, we twenty-something-year-olds want to be your friend! When in doubt, think of me as your mentor 😉 No, I’m totally kidding. But going into my second semester of senior year starting TOMORROW, these are some of the things I learned throughout my college career.